"The SexTechnologist" blends my years of training as an engineer with my passion for authentic sexual and romantic expression.
Despite growing up in a very Caribbean household (re: conservative), I’ve always been a student of sexuality — curious about everything from the conventional to the taboo.


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My exploration of consensual non-monogamy began in 2019, leading me to become a regular in sex-positive spaces — both online and in person — where I could practice sexual liberation instead of just theorizing about it.
Before turning to somatic sexology full-time, I worked as a Technical Product Manager at companies like Goldman Sachs and Panorama Education, engineering complex systems that transformed data into products.
But I was drowning in my lack of purpose and desperate for guidance that felt real.
So in my spare time, I enrolled in programs at Sexual Health Alliance and the Amina Institute, redefining my understanding of love, community, and sexual freedom.
Now through The SexTechnologist, I explore how technology and modern relationship models are reshaping intimacy itself; building you the roadmaps I wish I had years ago.


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Whether through essays, talks, or coaching, my goal is simple: to help people make sense of the ever-changing landscape of love and connection, guiding them to build an intimate world that is
expansive, sexy, and tailor-made.