Sex. Tech. CNM.

The Future of Intimacy, Explained.

Intimacy today looks different: more digital, more fluid, more expansive.
I’m here to help make sense of it all and provide you the tools to explore it in an authentic, embodied way.

Let's make erotic intelligence your secret weapon.

“Curiosity is my love language.”

Hi! I'm Janelle, The SexTechnologist

Picture of me in 2020 at the Museum of Sex in NYC

I’m a student of sexuality and a guide to modern intimacy.

Fusing my technical expertise with my somatic sexology knowledge, I take a modern yet balanced approach to building conscious, loving relationships.

My work sits at the crossroads of sexology, digital intimacy, and consensual non-monogamy.

I aim to help you build an intimate world that’s expansive, sexy, and uniquely yours.

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Dive into the world of digital intimacy and explore how technology is reshaping our connections.

My Offerings

Step into a new era of relationships. Whether you're innovating or seeking deeper bonds, let's explore together.

Interested in a free pipeline package?   Sign up for a research call!

The
Monogamy To
Non-Monogamy Pipeline

A guided 4-month journey from traditional love to conscious, connected non-monogamy.


A coaching container designed to educate and guide couples who are exploring or transitioning into non-monogamy. Together, we’ll rebuild healthy relationship agreements, strengthen communication, and unpack the hidden dynamics that shape open relationships including couple’s privilege, jealousy, and attachment.

You’ll learn to:

  • Design agreements that reflect your real desires
  • Develop the unique skills non-monogamy requires
  • Navigate jealousy and comparison with awareness
  • Explore pleasure and connection consciously

Includes:

3 × 60-minute joint sessions
1 × 60-minute individual session each
Weekly guided activities
Monday–Friday text support

Perfect for couples ready to move from theory to practice with structure, compassion, and guidance.

(payment plans avail.)


Build Your Own Pipeline

A 3-month custom coaching experience for your unique erotic or relational evolution.


This personalized coaching container is designed to meet you where you are. Whether you’re exploring new relationship structures, deepening intimacy, or rediscovering pleasure after a breakup, I tailor our work to your specific goals and curiosities.

Common focus areas include:

  • Navigating relationship challenges
  • Processing breakups with embodiment and grace
  • Exploring new kinks and pleasures
  • Overcoming sexual performance anxiety
  • Deepening tantric or mindful sexual connection
  • Communicating desires and boundaries
  • Learning somatic dating and flirting techniques

For couples or polycules:

3 × 60-min joint sessions
1 × 30-min individual session ea.
Weekly guided activities
Monday–Friday text support

For individuals:

3 × 60-min coaching sessions
Weekly guided activities
Monday–Friday text support

Perfect for those who want to explore, expand, or heal with a framework that flexes to fit your needs.

(payment plans avail.)


Book Your Free Intake Session Today!

Not ready for a full coaching journey? Book a confessional!

Where Data meets Desire

Weekly essays exploring erotic intelligence, digital intimacy, and the future of connection—modern, embodied, and always a little provocative.

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Embrace a new era of connection

Be the first to explore the upcoming SexTech App Directory — a catalog of different sextech apps ranging from dating to relationships to novelty — all transforming how we connect, communicate, and care.

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